Bdsm disabled women

Mickey Valentine x Jun 27, I have a pretty cane that I use during the colder seasons. It is my best friend. I walk everywhere with it and it has helped me from falling on my ass. I also wield a flogger, handcuffs and a Hitachi magic wand. I am into orgasm denial both giving and receiving.

BDSM encompasses so many things. Today I would like to talk about the disabled submissive. What happens when the person who is a sub, loves to serve, loves the flogger, cane, etc. As many of you know, I have mobility issues and use forearm crutches. How would you deal with that as a sub?

Have you ever considered BDSM — bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism? But, practices inspired by it could help to liberate anyone disabled and unable to enjoy sex in a conventional way. Francesca from inclusive sex aid website, The Pleasure Garden , explains all. Sticks and stones may break my bones… but whips and chains excite me!

That franchise and other pop-culture touchstones paint kink as a sultry extravagance of the rich, svelte, and white—a rarified space for those with pristine bodies. Even as kink becomes more popular and widely discussed in mainstream culture, the common depictions of BDSM don't leave much room for those with non-normative bodies to be able to participate. However, the actual world of BDSM has long been populated by people of all levels of ability—from those with visible conditions like paralysis to invisible conditions like chronic pain or fatigue, as well as mental conditions like PTSD. For many people with disabilities, BDSM is just one facet of life in which they have learned to accommodate their differences. For others, kink is a powerful tool for managing their disability: controlling pain , inverting social dynamics , and achieving new levels of comfort with and communication about their disabilities and needs.